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Mindfulness: Achieving Calmness




Part 2 of a 10 Part Series.

How do you achieve calmness?

You can achieve calmness with practice and control. 
Practice and control in stillness, temporarily abandoning how you feel.

To calm down is to back away from the overwhelming feeling 
in response to conditions or situations you are in.

To calm down in anger.
To calm down the excitement.
To calm down the fear.
To calm down the anxiety.

To calm down from the overwhelming feeling and begin to relax.

It's not calmness. It's not relaxing. It's just stillness.
To be completely still and in tune with yourself.
To be completely still and in tune with nature.
To be completely still and in tune with God- Your Creator.

To be still is to surrender completely.

To be mindful, is to be aware and in tune with everything and everybody.
To be mindful is being careful and intentional.

Remember every breath work, every prayer (or chant?), every heart beat, is in tune and beats to the same rhythmic vibration to the One- the Almighty Creator.

Everything and everyone has it's own unique frequency, enjoining to the Creator in a rhythmic vibrational energy, beating in oneness to the ultimate One- the Almighty Creator.

It's when you completely surrender to God, it's when you feel humility, you'll feel calm and at peace. You are one of the created beings, realizing no matter how big the universe is, you can still be in tune to your Creator. Such boundless love and mercy.

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This is a light- hearted take on life, not an in-depth discussion, and certainly it's not meant to ridicule other people's perspective. I've come out from the deepest end in life and I know what it feels like to be in bad situations.
Read my blog post, where I share my personal story and decide to be my own hero.

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